Vacation ending ...

Well, two more days and we leave for home. These twenty-six days of vacation have been fun. However, I have missed Cuenca more than I can put into words. In Cuenca we do not have violent crime. Murders are unheard of. No drive-by shootings, no attacks on school campuses, no beatings on public transportation, and no terrorist attacks. Guns are not allowed in Ecuador. School children from elementary age and older can walk home from school, alone, without fear. Women and children can walk alone after dark without fear. Since we have been in the US we have been bombarded with bad news that includes mass murder, beatings, and hatred. How has this affected me?  I can't sleep at night due to constantly thinking about the horrible crimes that occur all over the country. I have crazy dreams, nightmares, and I worry constantly. I worry about the safety of my family and friends. I worry about my ten year old nephew and what he faces as he grows up in this violent society. Yesterday we went to SunTrust Bank to close all of our accounts. While there, our banker said there was a burglary attempt, at that location, earlier in the day and that they had been on lock-down. In Cuenca, I am completely stress free.  I sleep all night, have pleasant dreams, and wake up refreshed. 

Why is Ecuador is so special?

No guns. 

Religion. Religious holidays are just that. There is no Easter Bunny or Santa Clause. 

Money is not a priority. It is not a money hungry society. They could care less what kind of car you drive or how large your house is. People live within their means. 

What is a major priority?

FAMILY. Families actually enjoy spending time together. On weekends you see entire families hanging out in public places. Grandparents, parents, children ... all enjoying each other's company. They play together, laugh together, enjoy every minute together. They hug each other, kiss each other, walk arm-in-arm, hold hands. It is so sweet and so special that it nearly brings tears to my eyes. One day I asked my students if they often went to the movie theater. They all responded, yes!  I asked if they went with friends. All seven gave me a funny look, they looked at each other, and then said "No, we go to the movies with our family!"  If they knew the word I'm sure they all would have said "duh!"  

Mothers and fathers take an active interest in the lives of their children instead of texting and browsing the Internet on their cell phones all day. How refreshing, right?

There are many other reasons why Ecuador is special, but the main one is the people. They are a very gentle and caring people. They welcome strangers with open arms and immediately make you a part of their family. All we need to do is to attempt to speak Spanish, show that we respect them and their culture, and not try to change them. Just because they may do some things differently does not mean it's wrong. 

We have been in Ecuador for only four months and I am certain that we have made the right decision to retire there. Fresh fruits and vegetables are readily available, yes, all are organic! Meats are antibiotic free and raised on farms, not inside overcrowded buildings. Fish are fresh from local lakes, streams, and the ocean. And, in the short time we have been there we have made too many friends to count. 

Interested in seeing this great place?  We welcome and encourage you to visit. A third-world country is actually a much better place to live. 

I can't leave without posting some pics of Atlanta. 

The famous FOX. 

Atlanta's tallest building. The Bank of America Plaza. 

The Windsor condos. Mike and I used to live in this building on the 16th floor. It's across the street from the Bank of America Plaza and a block from The Fox. 

St. Mark United Methodist Church.